Gentle and Strong

With this next part I have decided to break some of this down since I may have confused some of you.

By listening and responding to your wife in an empathetic way it does not mean you are a pushover.  It does not mean you put her on a pedestal either.

By listening and repeating back what she is saying shows her you are listening.  Instead of trying to fix her issue just do your best to understand and be present with her.  This is what a Gentle man does.

You should cease your blaming, grudges, jealousy, fault finding, and resentment immediately.  If your woman wants to go down that road with you DO NOT follow.   Your wife will follow what you do when she realizes that you are no longer exhibiting that behavior.  Listening without thinking about what you are going to say to her makes you present minded.  Listen then think. 

This is what a strong man does.

This may seem very difficult, or impossible for some of you guys. Winning or losing an arguement with women makes us lose either way. Win by showing her that you love her no matter what. Touch her, lick her ear! Anything that will make her giggle and you win.

A strong and gentle man. Women are helpless to this type of man. Rainy or sunny, the day is beautiful no matter what kind of weather you prefer. So are women. Love her on the days she hates as much as the days she adores.

A gentle and strong man. Women are helpless to these types of men.